Orca and Orcut.

I have been using orca for about two months now. I am starting to get a hang on the speech and how to get around on the internet and in different aplications.
This morning I wanted to send a private message to one of my friends on Orcut. ?That was not easy... Firstly I could not find a send message button in my friends profile. I finaly found it by cliking on a link called more under the report abuse button. Then I navigated myself to the place where it said subject and message. It was easy to fill in the subject and message body. Then a new problem arised. I could not find the send button! I navigated around the site for several minutes, but finaly I decided to give up. May be it was better to send my friend an email after all:(
I closed orcut and then, simsalabim! A Send button appeared out of the blue:) Hopfully my message went through. I also tried to write in my frinds scrap book, I found his scrap, and the reply button. But I could not find anywhere to write inn my message, nor a share or a send button. This has taken me about 45 minutes now. Next time I deffinetly will send my friend an email instead of writing him on orcut:)